Wednesday, September 19, 2007

To a fren who asked me how to win a gal's heart, here's a good answer 4 u......


Most guys let their feelings blind them as soon as they meet a hot chick. They start fantasizing about spending the night or even building a future with the "girl of their dream", when the girl is clearing showing absolutely NO interest in them. In some cases, the girl doesn't even NOTICE the guy. Here's the bottom line:
SHE HAS TO LIKE YOU FIRST BEFORE YOU CAN START ANYTHING WITH HER!!
When it comes to dating, women are the choosers. Men pick, but women choose.
If she likes your style or looks, she will let you approach her.
If she likes your approach, she will let you talk.
If she likes the conversation, she will give you the phone number.
If she likes the first date, she will give you a second date.
If she likes you holding her hand, she will let you kiss her.
If she likes your French kiss, she will let you??

GET IT?

Most guys make the mistake of projecting their own attraction onto the girl. They think: "I think she is the most wonderful person in the world, so she must feel the same way about me!"

Uh-huh. Wrong!!
She doesn't care about how much you love her, she only cares about how much SHE likes you!
Think about it. If a fat chick with a black beard tells you she loves you, are you going to marry her on the spot? No way! The same thing is true for women. If a girl does not like you, then you're just like the fat chick with a beard. No matter how hard you try, she's not going to marry you because she is not attracted to you at all.

On the other hand, if you have a girl who loves you with all her heart, then she will try her best to make you feel happy. There are NO limits to what a girl would do for a man she loves. She could be working a 60-hour job, but she's still going to find time to go out with you if she likes you enough.

Every once in awhile, you hear about a "bad boy" abusing his wife or girlfriend. The guy hits and abuses the poor girl every day, but when the guy gets arrested the girl still stands up for him in court and even waits for him to get out of jail.

Why?

Because the girl is super-attracted to him! See what I mean when I say it's not how much you like the girl, but how much the girl likes you!!

LISTEN, IF SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU, SHE WON'T CHANGE HER MIND NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU TRY TO CHASE HER.

GO ahead. Send her flowers. Buy her gifts. Ask her out. She may be flattered. But let me tell you now.. you AREN'T going to win her heart.
You're just going to be "used" as a "friend" she takes out when she feel bored and need company. You will NEVER get to spend your life with the girl of your dream.
But there IS a way around this. Instead of "chasing" women like most guys do, try to ATTRACT THEM instead. GET IT!!
GOOD LUCK!!

5 comments:

bantwan said...

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vteck said...

me too, he he...

Gary Liew said...

wah... a blog... somemore about love and realationship... hee hee..great start!

ahPao said...

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Josh Wee said...

Me support also ! gan gan qu !