You Making My Day!!

The longest day in my life..

12pm - 3pm
ROUND I (Happy Birthday KEVIN)

Today we do it again.. which was almost became a routine for us. What is it? That is celebrating a friend's birthday. And the lucky guy is our "beloved" Kevin!! hohohoo...

We and a bunch of gang celebrating the day with a luncheon buffet at Xenri Japanese Restaurant (Wisma Elken) at Old Klang Road there..

The participant in crime at da luncheon is "your truly" ahPao , Alvin, Kevin & Rachel & little Audrey, Gary & Tracy & Oscar "zai", Yandsen & Ping Ping and last but not less Bantwan with his pretty female friend.

PS: Butt, should i put down her name here?? i think her name is something about Alicia?? am i right?? hahahaa...

The luncheon is from 1pm - 3pm. Although it doesn't have much choise in term of food but it is still good enough for me. I am especially fond with their Oyster and grill fish. The price are around RM40 - RM50 per person which is reasonable base on the quality of food. Definetely will back for another try someday.. :P

As the clock tick around 2.30pm.. we bring out the cake. Kevin saw it.. i know.. i know.. you will ask: "did he surprise?" or "did he cry?" Let me tell you laa.. the answer is NO!! coz he fully expected.. somemore dare to complain we spell his name wrong on the cake and show us a "I-Know-You-Guy-Will-Celebrated-For-Me" face.. hahaha.. cheapster!!

Overall, this is a fun party..

Below are the link on the occassion from my fellow famous blogger!!

http://garyliew.blogspot.com/2009/01/kevin-birthday-xenri-japanese-cuisine.html

3pm - 4.30pm
After da luncheon at 3pm.. most of us go our own way. I have to rush to Park Royal Hotel to fetch a friend whom have just attend an Airasia screening for a cabin crew.

I didn't expect the traffic are so heavy therefore i can only reach there about 4.30pm in which she already wait me for more than an hour. I'm so paiseh for making a woman wait so long.. luckily she's a patient gal and didn't throw a tantrum on me. luv ya.. >.<"

5pm - 8pm
After faetching her home.. i go to a convenient store to buy a cigarette and newspaper. As i enter the car.. KABOOM!! it start to rain really hard man.. sien liao lor.. coz i can't go anyway.. not even back to my own house.. i have to stay on the car for almost an hour.. and thinking what should i do for the night. I feel so bored at that time and need to go somewhere to chill out.. and with the stupid rain still heavy out there.. i can't even have a sip on the cigarette to clear my head.

As i starting to give up.. i heard a magic sound!! It was a BEEP from my hand phone.!! I GOT A MESSAGE!! It was from Yan Tzi. She ask me to join them for a steamboat at 8pm at our "old place". Hooray!! Just as i'm replying her message comfirming my participant.. another magic moment happen!! The rain stop!! wahlau.. feel a little bit like a scene from movie.. :P

8pm - 11pm
ROUND II (Steamboat..)

I quickly rush back to take a quick shower and then head out to Cheras for the second round. As usual.. i am the earliest to reach there. I order a congee and tom yam set for three with additional of Q Q Tofu, Pei Tan, Kam Zam Gu and YAM!! Yan Tzi reach here with Molly Yan and Chloe by the time everything is ready. So clever hor.. hahahaa.. We have a good food, good chat and good laugh especially with a story about Chloe and her dog.. or dogs.. We leave about 11pm.

and then.. i'm alone again!! i'm start to worry i have some LONELYPHOBIA!!

Am thinking about asking Gary and Bantwan out for a drink and watch football but.. after a long consideration (2 minutes laa.. ) i guess i'm better not. Reason?

1st : It's late already..
2nd : They have their own family to take care
3rd : Not sure Butt is still at Subang or Cheras.. hahahaa..

12am - 2am
ROUND III (Manchester United vs Chelsea)

I'm end up head back to my own territory at Desa and watch football alone there.. The game was Manchester United vs Chelsea. It was a very good game. The game was won by ManU with a respectable 3-0!! Thanks for a goal from Vidic, Rooney & Berbatov.

2am - 2.15am
On the way back to my humble hut. Got a message from Yoong Pang informing me about the result. Never expect him to watch the game too consider he have to work tomorrow. Really United power haa.. hahaha.. i still remember i am the one who influence him to watch football.. :P

2.30am - 4.30am
I know.. you will ask.. what the hell you suppose to do at this hour?? well.. i playing a bit with my MIMI.. then, take my second shower and start writing "THIS" rubbish.. hehehe...

am really sleepy now..

thanks to all the gang who make my day..

KEVIN, RACHEL, AUDREY, GARY, TRACY, OSCAR, YANDSEN, PING PING, ALVIN, BANTWAN, ALICIA, LYDIA, YAN TZI, CHLOE, MOLLY YAN, YOONG PANG, BUFFET, STEAMBOAT, MANCHESTER UNITED and ahPao!!

Hopefully i didn't need another 2 month for my next blog.. c ya.. ^o^

ME

I DO IT AGAIN.. why?? why now.. why can't i wait for few more month?? don't i enjoying my life for the last few month.. why i have to spoil it?? i have repeatly told myself not to fall into the same problem again.. i have been avoiding it for so long.. why can't i wait!! now is not the best time for this... here i am.. stupid me!!

what do you do when you are upset?? some people might drunk themself with booze.. some eat ferociously.. or gyming maybe.. or crying their heart out..

as for me.. i smoke!! I smoke untill my lung can't take it anymore.. i know it.. i have a weak lung and bad throat.. my throat have been hurt before.. don't i remember my throat have been badly hurt as recent as two years ago.. i have lost my voice for few days.. and for once.. i almost lost my life because of breathing problem..

soo.. why do i do it again..?? because this is me.. when i upset.. only smoking can release my tension.. without it.. i will be crazy.. i know i am not a happy man.. the fact is.. i am very very moody person.. i can turn from cheerful to sad in just a split second... and because of this.. i need to choose something to control myself.. that is smoke!!

sometimes.. i just think.. isn't it a good idea if i could just sleep and never wake up again.. i have no reason to life.. my life have no meaning at all.. i felt so lonely..

my friend told me blogging can help to calm yourself.. i hope this is true..

To a fren who asked me how to win a gal's heart, here's a good answer 4 u......

Most guys let their feelings blind them as soon as they meet a hot chick. They start fantasizing about spending the night or even building a future with the "girl of their dream", when the girl is clearing showing absolutely NO interest in them. In some cases, the girl doesn't even NOTICE the guy. Here's the bottom line:
SHE HAS TO LIKE YOU FIRST BEFORE YOU CAN START ANYTHING WITH HER!!When it comes to dating, women are the choosers. Men pick, but women choose.
If she likes your style or looks, she will let you approach her.
If she likes your approach, she will let you talk.
If she likes the conversation, she will give you the phone number.
If she likes the first date, she will give you a second date.
If she likes you holding her hand, she will let you kiss her.
If she likes your French kiss, she will let you??

GET IT?

Most guys make the mistake of projecting their own attraction onto the girl. They think: "I think she is the most wonderful person in the world, so she must feel the same way about me!"

Uh-huh. Wrong!!
She doesn't care about how much you love her, she only cares about how much SHE likes you!
Think about it. If a fat chick with a black beard tells you she loves you, are you going to marry her on the spot? No way! The same thing is true for women. If a girl does not like you, then you're just like the fat chick with a beard. No matter how hard you try, she's not going to marry you because she is not attracted to you at all.

On the other hand, if you have a girl who loves you with all her heart, then she will try her best to make you feel happy. There are NO limits to what a girl would do for a man she loves. She could be working a 60-hour job, but she's still going to find time to go out with you if she likes you enough.

Every once in awhile, you hear about a "bad boy" abusing his wife or girlfriend. The guy hits and abuses the poor girl every day, but when the guy gets arrested the girl still stands up for him in court and even waits for him to get out of jail.

Why?

Because the girl is super-attracted to him! See what I mean when I say it's not how much you like the girl, but how much the girl likes you!!

LISTEN, IF SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU, SHE WON'T CHANGE HER MIND NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU TRY TO CHASE HER.

GO ahead. Send her flowers. Buy her gifts. Ask her out. She may be flattered. But let me tell you now.. you AREN'T going to win her heart.
You're just going to be "used" as a "friend" she takes out when she feel bored and need company. You will NEVER get to spend your life with the girl of your dream.
But there IS a way around this. Instead of "chasing" women like most guys do, try to ATTRACT THEM instead. GET IT!!
GOOD LUCK!!